Not How It Works

No
Honesty is to yourself first
If being so is too hard
Your honesty worth nothing more than this very suffering of yours

No
Determination is to yourself first
If being so is too hard
Your eager involvement of everyone becomes a mere burden of theirs

No
Happiness is to yourself first
If asking for so is too hard
You bring no one happiness and you exhaust your mind out

And No
Relationship is to ourselves first
If you can't weigh us over anything else
We bound to hit the barrier where no one gets to move on except apart

And, No
Knowing and Doing So follows one another
If you only do one of them
You are no better than the oblivious who try to ad hoc things together

AND, NO
If you cannot overcome your mind
No One Can. Not even me.

...and now I have overcome everything around me but you...